Personal Experiences

Maintaining Relations:-      Always Relations first. This is the precedence, I consider in my life. In case of a dispute or difference, involving relations and friends, I give first priority to maintaining of relations rather than winning the argument or dispute. The dispute could be on money, assets or opinions.  I try to keep the same priority with my wife with lot of difficulty. Difficulty, because I have frequent arguments with my wife. I don't like to start any argument but it happens. Then I presume that more time one spends with any relative, there are likely to be more differences of opinions. These differences should be taken in a healthy spirit. They are constructive to quite an extent, as they teach us some lessons. I try and analyse the cause of arguement and come to conclusion that mainly the cause lies in me. I thank god, that the argument or dispute occurred and I could see a new side of the problem. I enjoy analysing a dispute and solving it.       I have g

Self Motivation :-       I feel self motivation is the best form of motivation. Smiling is the best form of keeping motivated. Smile is free of cost. Try and smile at a person you meet and you will get the smile back.      Most of us are letting our minds drift towards negativity. We concentrate more on obstacles rather than on achievement. We get tensed in case a single obstacle crops up and we make "a mountain out of the mole hill" in our thoughts. Similarly we get too much worked up on confrontations and start thinking of revenges. In order to be motivated keep humor in place. Listen to and read jokes, and have a good laughter. Try and laugh aloud for 5 minutes in a day, and repeat for a week. The change in attitude will be very conspicuous. Everyday I go to a park, early morning and laugh aloud for 5 minutes, with sound Ha...Ha...Ha. I feel refreshed and energetic. Just try for a week and see the results.      I recollect an incident of my yester years, when six of